Truly madly deeply and sincerely ..
bluey ...nicey..goodie Dream catcher
Really had a fitfull, peaceful slp..ek
Leap years come but once every 4 years. And the most interesting thing about it is the traditions linking to this day. Although the versions from England and Ireland or other country may differ but the gist of it is that on Feb 29th the girl can propose to her man or the man that she has set her eyes upon. In today’s context, it can also be seen as a day meant for women to ask any men out on a date and the (chosen one) men cannot refuse for it has been known to bring bad luck on the men who reject. So ladies, if you have a special man in your life, you might want to take this chance to ask him to go on a date with you. I’m sure if the guy is nice enough, gentlemen enough and free, he wouldn’t mind the date. Ek -_* (wink) Or else, you might have to wait till 2012(the next leap year) to get another chance. I believe in trying and since this is no harm, why not have ago on this day?p.s:
i am here..all these while..but always left behind, always left out..
I think I tend to forget how fortunate I am, to take contentment in things which I am blessed with..Even if these things which I possess be them tangible or not are not comparable to others who have more, I think I should be thankful for my share..
Be thankful that you don't already have everything you desire,
If you did, what would there be to look forward to?"
Be thankful when you don't know something,
For it gives you the opportunity to learn."
Be thankful for your mistakes.
They will teach you valuable lessons."
Be thankful when you're tired and weary,
Because it means you've made a difference."
So, KEEP SMILING and have a peaceful mind for each day!!!
In love, there is neither right nor wrong.There is only what I would believe to be fate and debts. For the debts you owe in past live, you have to pay it back. For the thing done unjust to others one will be bound to suffer from retribution. And believe me, these little thing called retribution sure come back sooner than you might expect it. One will have to go through the whole cycle of sufferings to payback for those things he or she has caused and brought upon others. Well, what I am saying here is that the fact that out ex-gf/bf has hurt us in a way which we can never understand maybe because of these past live debts or a way of our own retribution..
I am not sure where I have gone wrong either but I sure don’t wish to meet another “wrong”ones. They said that every wrong one will lead me eventually to the RIGHT one but so far from the way I see the more we chanced upon, the further away we will be diverted from the right one.
Anyway erasing those memories of the bad ones may seem easy especially if one found a new one to replace the old, but the wound will stil be there..to hurt once and again..
and what can one do or react when encounter the old one someday somewhere unexpected?
So my question is:
What will you do when you meet your used-to-be boyfriend/girlfriend one day after you thought you have already erased them from both memory and delete them from the special place in your heart?
Or when you hear good news about the x with certain gal or guy marriage?
Will you turn away or will talk to them as though they were friends?
What effect will she or he have on you?
How will you feel even after the little incident of meeting him or her, by chance or by fate?
How will you receive the news of their engagement or marriage?
I believe strongly that so long he or she has even a slight effect on you imply that you have still thoughts of them. I am not sure if it would mean you might have feelings for her but one thing for sure, she/he still holds a place in your heart.
Of course, one could urge that being human as we all are with thousands and one emotions, it is only natural to feel a ting of jealous or envy or even thought of “what-if”. Indeed if these feelings are momentary, as fast as they come and go then it is normal and justifiable to do so.
But if you kept harping on this matter then I believe that you should try to forgive and forget …time it seems is a good remedy for heartache and heart break but I beg to differ.. time may help in healing but to completely mend a wound caused by love, it can only be another love for the full recovery .. to trust once again, to have faith in the happily-ever ending, to believe that everything has not been lost.. and one can love and be loved once again without any betrayal ..
I sincerely and deeply wish and pray and hope that may those who suffered from break up or betrayal find love once again …
May they have full strength to be able to face their x with a smile and wish for them whole heartedly!
I think the worst thing one can ever do is to be made to wait! That’s the worst treatment one could ever give to either friends or loved ones or simple anyone. It has been often said that the best thing to do while waiting is to go and do other things to kill time. But whatever it is, one should have a sense of responsibility to inform others of their delay in arrival. They should think of the consequences of what their late arrival could cause the other party to lose. The least they could do is to call or send text message to let the other party know and not let them wait in vain.
Tsk tsk. Why do people simply prefer to ignore how other party would feel and not bother [“hack care” in Singapore slang] about informing.
What shall I do with these people without having any sense of responsibility!!!!arguhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
1. At the movies:
When you meet acquaintances/ friends.. .
Stupid Question:- Hey, what are you doing here?
Answer:-Dont u know, I sell tickets in black over here..
2. In the bus:
A heavy lady wearing pointed high-heeled shoes steps on your feet...
Stupid Question:- Sorry, did that hurt?
Answer:-No, not at all, I'm on local anesthesia.. ...why don't you try again.
3. At a funeral:
One of the teary-eyed people ask...
Stupid Question:-Why, why him, of all people.
Answer:-Why? Would it rather have been you?
4. At a restaurant:
When you ask the waiter
Stupid Question:-Is the special dish "xxx" good??
Answer:-No, its terrible and made of adulterated cement.
We occassionaly also spit in it.
5. At a family get-together:
When some distant aunt meets you after years...
Stupid Question:-hey gal, you've become so big.put on weight eh ?:P
Answer:-Well you haven't particularly shrunk yourself.
6. When a friend announces her wedding, and you ask...
Stupid Question:-Is the guy you're marrying good?
Answer:-No,he's a miserable wife-beating , insensitive lout...it's just the money.
7. When you get woken up at midnight by a phone call...
Stupid Question:-Sorry. were you sleeping?
Answer:-No. I was doing research on whether the Zulu tribes in Africa marry or not. You thought I was sleeping.... you dumb witted moron.
8. When you see a friend/colleague with evidently shorter hair...
Stupid Question:-Hey have you had a haircut?
Answer:-No, its autumn and I'm shedding.... ..
9. At the dentist when he's sticking pointed objects in your mouth...
Stupid Question:- Tell me if it hurts?
Answer:-No it wont. It will just bleed.
10. You are smoking a cigarette and a cute woman asks...
Stupid Question:-Oh, so you smoke.
Answer:-Gosh, it's a miracle .......it was a piece of chalk and now it's in flames!!!
Gift of Love by Mother Teresa
Life is an opportunity, avail it. Life is bliss, taste it
Life is a dream, realize it. Life is a challenge, meet it
Life is a duty, complete it. Life is a game, play it
Life is costly, care for it. Life is a wealth, keep it
Life is love, enjoy it. Life is mystery, know it
Life is a promise, fulfill it. Life is sorrow, overcome it
Life is a song, sing it. Life is a struggle, accept it
Life is a tragedy, brace it. Life is an adventure, dare it
Life is luck, make it. Life is life, defend it
well on this poem, my view is simple, life is like that, so wat to do, live like tat lor..right? :P
Love s a feeling which encompass whole of body, mind and soul.
Often than not, love come with conditions. Perhaps being so humans as we all are, when we love someone, we give it with “terms and conditions” in the hope that we too will be loved the same way as we do for the other half. Often than not, love is never a fairy tale item nor is it fair and balanced. You either love more or less but can never be equal to the same amount which the other party has for you. But whatever it is, I am glad for existence of this special feeling. Even if I am not being loved, at least I can still love someone. And hopefully someday I can love un-conditionally and in return being loved in the same way..to the day I am hoping for this little thing call love to come by.. I will be waiting..
Although 14th of Feb has been set to celebrate in remembrance of Mr Valentine and also for love, it is known most commonly as a day for lovers. However, I beg to differ this latter view of such a day. In my opinion it is a day for celebration of love. Love in the form of any shape and sizes. Love for friends, love for spouse, love for family, love for parents, love for siblings, love for children and lastly most importantly for loved ones. Many a times, parents, siblings and friends are often left out on such a day as most will just focus on their other halves, showering them with gifts, flowers and sumptuous meals.
So I would like to call onto those who get to read this post not to left your loved ones out on such a day. Do remember to say a loving word or two, if possible shower them with a card or small gifts.
And I would like to wish all my friends, my family and my loved ones a very happy valentine day!
Wishes for all of you to have abundance of love, joy and happiness!
Achit Myar Thu Si Mar (him who has my heart and love)
Choosing the right colour is important, but the number of flowers too have their own say!!! Check it out!!
Love at the first sight. The single rose, whatever its color, depicts utmost devotion to a single person. "All my deepest affections are concentrated in you".
Mutual feelings, especially if they are red in color speak of two people who are deeply in love and together form their own happy little world.
Stand for the three words in "I Love You", and seek to convey this very simple yet powerful message
I love you very much
I love you, I miss you. Speak of the need to be loved and cherished.
I'm infatuated with you
Together as long as we live
You are pretty
You're my treasured one. To assure someone that he or she is truly and deeply loved.
Be my steady
Forever friends. Also indicate that there is a secret admirer waiting to be discovered.
I'm really sorry
Choosing the right colour to say the right words:
The creative spirit of love.
True love stronger than thorns.
True red is the lover's rose.
Amaranth red: long standing desire
Cardinal red: sublime desire
Carmine: deceitful desire (not true to color)
Fieryred: flames of passion.
it is given as a sign of friendship, sometimes as a sign of sympathy.
It is the rose of familiar love and domestic happiness.
Loyalty, penetrating and platonic love.
Able to captivate secret thought, love stronger than death.
Loyalty, penetrating and platonic love. Able to captivate secret thought, love stronger than death.
Grace, gentility, elegance and refinement.
The rose of sweet thoughts.
Purple adds enchantment.
Can be transcendental. Possible need to proceed cautiously.
Purple can indicate opulence or majesty.
A warm color that says, I am proud of you.
blueFantasy and impossibility.
Hoping for a miracle and new possibilities.
Many people have a quest or a fascination for blue roses. I
The color of the crone, the wise lady of death.
The promise that soon you will know something you did not know before.
Some see it as a bad omen.
Death of fixed thoughts or ideas.
Signifies a rejuvenation on the horizon.
May not be understood as a gift.
Who invented A,B,C,D,E,.. ......... ......... ......... .Z did a great thing.
But he kept U and I very very far.
But I still got a place where U and I are very close.....
in fact together.... ...
Do you know where U and I can be together
It is on the keyboard.... . :P
開開心心 ！ 工作順利 ！！ 身體健康！
...祝您在新的一年，一帆風順，二龍騰飛，三羊開泰，四季平安，五福臨門， 六六大順，七星高照，八方來財，九九同心，十全十美，百事亨通，千事吉祥，萬事如意！！！ 鼠年行大運!
Sentosa Flowers 2008圣淘沙春节花会
“The Spring that begins with a Million Blooms!”
7 – 17 Feb
i have learnt that i have a BIG weakness..that..my ...hear is weak and that the softness of it is way below than sub minus..
i could never ever stay angry or keep away or hate someone for more than a day or so!
i could never ever stay away ...from people that i care for..
even if it meant that i am "thick skin" or "shameless" or " prideless"..if i think he or she is worthy of me doing so, i would never hesitate to initiate or approach!
i could never hide away nor kept things unsaid..
oh ya..thats me..sigh! when will i learn..when will i grow..from this..weakness of mine :(
Regret! A common word you would often find in my life!
Actually my first item down the New Year resolution list is not to regret.
However I can’t help feeling it ever since the start of this year. My immense regret over the decision to stick with the old familiar place instead of moving on to a more challenging place from the 2nd day of 2008 till today!
How long could I hang on? How long more do I have to be insensitive to the harsh cruel world out there where there is no place for me at all?
Perhaps, being me who has been lonely almost all my life, long to seek for accompany, desire to be treated the same way I treat people. I am such a person who once has a liking for someone would do anything for him or her..as once a fren, always a fren theory is what I practise! If people treat me nice, I would repay back ten times that of the kind treatment!
Maybe I was wrong about people. Although there is kindness in each and everyone of us, some of us like me are not fortunate enough to deserve such kindness from them...
i just want to share my thoughts, some of the nice forward mails, some jokes, some photos..something that can last forever in memory..in the process of growing up...
becoz being such a ME..i want to grow :
grow out of dependency
grow out of immaturity
grow out of confusion
grow out of childishness
grow out of protected walls
will u GROW with me?
10Q for visiting this low-profile site of mine..
10Q too for taking time to read the posts..
hope u will enjoy reading~