being romatic

I have learnt that..most of the time, in guys..there is not much Romanticism in their life..perhaps..to them ..I think romanticism is not about doing something, but being together with someone he love and waking up to see her everyday..being with her..is a way of being romantic :D

hoat la..??!

Maybe..

Maybe God put a LOT bad people in your life,

so when the right one came along you'd be thankful...

you'd be joyful for the happiness you going to get...

but in the mean time..get hurt..pick up..get hurt again...over n over again..lessons learnt..yet repeated..

silence is golden

sometime...
being silent, can be one of the most effective ways in communication too..

i would love to stay in such a place...

someday..i hope i will ...i shall..with him..with children of our own..with parents..
in happiness, in warm and cozyness

rays..

when rays of light seeps through...
hope is there..even when clothes are dark..storm seems approaching.. :D

the 5B's of singapore

Most of you would have heard of the Singapore 5C's! :
Car, Condo, Credit Card (Gold), Cash and Career

Heard of the 5B's?
>
> B - BMW
>
> B - Body
>
> B - Brain
>
> B - Billionaire
>
> B - Bungalow

above message is one which i receive from a friend.
whoever thought of this 5 "B"s..must be super materialistic..

give a little..

Kindly words,
sympathizing attentions,
watchfulness against wounding men's sensitiveness--
these cost very little,
but they are priceless in their value..
...by..F.W. Robertson

do we have a deal? :O

Just a poem I wish to share..
Coz in life, with regrets, come the desire to seek frogiveness..but then..
Is it easy to do so....hmm

~

You ask for my forgiveness but I would like to seek yours too:

You forgive me for finding you so eye-catching,
And I’ll forgive you for not noticing me.

You forgive me for liking you too much,
And I’ll forgive you for not liking me enough.

You forgive me for the loud racing of my heart,
And I’ll forgive you for not hearing it.

You forgive me for missing you so much,
And I’ll forgive you for being so cold.

You forgive me for raising you up so high.
And I’ll forgive you for bringing me down so low.

You forgive me for wanting to be with you,
And I’ll forgive you for avoiding me.

You forgive me for wanting your attention,
And I’ll forgive you for being so indifference towards me.

You forgive me for praying and wishing you to turn to me,
And I’ll forgive you for being turning to her.

You forgive me for playing your games,
And I’ll forgive your for toying with my emotions.

You forgive me for wanting to know how you are getting on,
And I’ll forgive you for cutting contact with me.

You forgive me for being a victim,
And I’ll forgive you for being the initiator.

You forgive me for having hopes and dreams,
And I’ll forgive you for crushing them.

You forgive me for being so pathetic,
And I’ll forgive you for taking advantage of it.

You forgive me for being so desperate,
And I’ll forgive you for enjoying having the upper hand.

You forgive me for being so loss,
And I’ll forgive you for having known she is the one you wanted.

You forgive me for not being able to let go,
And I’ll forgive you for never having latched on.

It seems that forgiveness brings inner peace, forgiveness brings serenity
So do we have a deal?

do u tink..

this is the best job in the world?

Job Scope:

1. Lazing around Australia's Great Barrier Reef , Hamilton Island, part of the country's Whitsunday Islands
2. six months duration
3. Salary: 150,000 Australian dollars ($100,000)
4. stay in a multi-million-dollar three-bedroom beach home

Requirement:
1. fantastic and charismatic communicator,
2. speak and write English.

more details can be found HERE

the bad thing is...he/she will be ALONE..in such luxuary..i wonder..how can that person stand..hmm...i wonder..

little nyonya

a good story line..good actors and actress..
but..when more is added..it adds more damage than good lor..hiaz~
following is 3min additional dramas to little nyonya

sometime..

when u wait long enough..with much sincerity and patience, sometime...
you can reap whaat u sow.. :D

time passes by...

even more slower when you are counting down for it..
so find something to do in the meantime and it will fly faster..hopefully ba

finding..the +ve side of it..

Every moment
Every situation
Every issue
Every problem
Every frustration
Every sadness
Every unhappiness
Every concern
Every heartbreak
Every piece of news

……..has a positive side
Find it and bring it out for ur benefits..for ur use..!

>> but then again..i started my new year 01.01.2009 on a bad note..so how to find the positive side eh..opsi..here come little ms pessimistic.. :P

for the new year

for the new year...wishes..and...remembrance

good or bad..

there's sth to learn from every experience, whether it was a good or bad one,
and whether the lesson is good or bad, whether it has been good or bad...
but make the best of what u can..because it is a past and what we can do is to apply what we learn in the past for Future..!..simply..because everything happen for a reason..be it good or bad..

jus explaining on previous post >>

With regards to the post on when.. my burmese blood calls on.. :
I actually have some explanation for it. Well, those who know me on a closer level usually find my love life puzzling. The first question they would always ask is why “BURMESE” buys, not just anyone but why the particular preferences for only Burmese. That is why I wrote to explain my thoughts and the call of Burmese blood in me. And I want to stress here that I am by no way desperate, I shall say again not desperate or anxious to find a bf or husband. If my posts have sent out wrong signal or have been meaning to portray such a negative side of me, then I must correct it here. Because on the contray of the message I am not trying to relay, I really would prefer and strongly wish for guys, in particular Burmese to stay away from me. This Dilo Bear me simply tend to attract the wrong type of guys who are in every way wrong for me. Of course the fault could have been mine entirely but whatever it is, the endings are still the same: they turn out to be in the category of true blue J-e-r-k-s!
So ya, I am just trying to be true to my feelings and baring what I feel pa.. ok?!?

invaluable untangible Values

Smile : Valuue 2ur face
Respect:Value 2ur Behaviour
Study:Value 2ur Future
Friendship:Value 2ur life
Love :Value 2ur heart..

when.. my burmese blood calls on..

Some might not know, perhaps from the very Burmese.or Authentic-Asian-looking me, actually Dilo bear has a long Chinese heritage. Well, from paternal side; it would be 100% Chinese blood while there is a little tainted Burmese blood from maternal side. But whatever it is, my love for Burma (which is universally termed as Myanmar, still I rather this motherland of mine as Burma) is still growing strong. I don’t long for riches or wealth. Neither money nor gems appeal me. And education has neither destroyed my belief or desire to go back and help out my following countrymen.
To tell the truth, my love and strong desire to go back grows as the number of years I spent in this stressful and practical country of Singapore increase. I don’t know when and where this blood of mine calls for….
But if someone were to ask for my hand to grow old with him in his township, I would be more than willing to agree straight away.. and start packing for the journey. ..
Hee, so you see. Such is my strong passion…Anyway there are really..so so so much things to be done .. for the people, for the children, for the monks .. and most of all for the better of the motherland. ..
Well, I myself is a native of Bago(which is a small township, few kilometer away from the once prospering capital city of Yangon. I love Bago. For its smallness. For the pagodas. For the people. For the bustling crowds near the Train station…
When I was young, at a very tender age, I have been to Hin-thar-dah township when my mother was posted to teach at their local university for a year. Those were the happiest moments of my life. I found country side appealing and the honesty of the locals very attractive. From that time onwards, at such young age, I vowed myself to marry the local or if fate allows, would like to spend some part of my life there. Those moments I wish to paint out in words..but they are simply..beyond what I could ever describe. ….>>those happy moments with the sis..i can call as my own..in teh campus of Hin-thar-dah Colleage<<

Subsequently, I got the chance to visit Shan state which includes Inlay and Taungyi some years back. That experience was what I would like to
I believe somehow somewhen..i would be ..dear motherland..and take resident at your site..please believe me..
...Even though its a very slim chance..and I might never get to settle down with any local burmese boy..still..I will come..please wait for me..cause I believe that..somehow..we will be united..once again..my beloved Hin-thar-dah..my beloved Bago..my motherland..Burma....

although...then again..

quoted from..Gilda Radner:
I wanted a perfect ending.
Now I've learned, the hard way,....
that some poems don't rhyme, and
some stories don't have a clear beginning, middle, and end.
Life is about not knowing, having to change,
taking the moment and making the best of it,
without knowing what's going to happen next.
Delicious Ambiguity...

wow..!a quote that simply took my breathe away...

Often, the first step is the hardest, but then after that rest assure that things will get going..

The picture is curtesy of someone's magical shot..on flickr
Thank you for letting me use it..its reali magical!