Wednesday, July 16, 2008

Oh Women!!!

Below is a short massage I received from a friend regarding the 7Beliefs Men Have about Women! I would like to share these with you so that you guys out there, can understand your ladies better and the truth about why we girls like to behave in those particular manners! *wink*

Belief #1- She'll never be satisfied
Truth:
Women are always looking 4 ways 2 make things better. Don’t take her suggestions as complaints or criticisms, but as her desire to make the relationship or situation the best that it can be.



#2-A strong, confident woman, doesn't need a man 2 take care of her.
Truth:
Everyone loves to be taken care of need to feel needed.
Even if a woman can fix things around d house or change the oil in her car, she will still ask for your help, so that she can feel your strength, support and protection. Don’t ever stop asking, 'What can i do 4 u?' Becoz it shows her that u care. ..and your care is what she would love most..among all things you can give her!



#3-Women only want to control men.

Truth:
It's not about control; it's about love.
When a woman sees a man hurting, struggling or overwhelmed, her goal is to help, not to ctrl. Let her give u a helping hand once in awhile. ..it would not do any harm to your ego..



#4-Keeping a woman requires a lot of hard work, time n money.
Truth:
A serious relationship requires time ann effort to cultivate it.
U shudn't look at it as a burden. Ur wife or girlfren will reciprocate the effort u put into it.

#5-U can't lie to woman.
Truth:
Women r extremely capable of picking up moods n attitudes n can easily read body language n facial expressions. Although u may think that u have gotten away wit a great lie, she is either letting it slide becoz she wants to keep d peace or she is lying to herself becoz she's afraid of d truth.

#6-Jealousy n possesiveness r a part of being a woman.
Truth:
Women r protective of what belongs to them. They protect the things they value, especially when it comes 2 relationship. It's not that she doesn't trust u,she is guarding the relationship. U r too precious 2 her for her to allow anything bad to happen 2 u or be taken away..become at times, it is always the greener and younger "grass"that leads males astray..

#7-Women are emotional.
Truth:
Women don't hide their feelings.They articulate wat's going on in their minds.There is nothing wrong with emotions--we all have them. Being in touch with their emotions causes women to be sensitive n caring,n that is why men love them, ins't it?!

>>so u see..
we do have our reasons too..dun u know>?:P

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

And also we ensure that when we enter in this specific blog site we see to it that the topic was cool to discuss and not a boring one.

Anonymous said...

Such a nice blog. I hope you will create another post like this.

. said...

Thanks for sharing Sis.
(may i know your email add to send song to you? mine is pannwe@gmail.com)

diLo said...

>>thanks sis pannwe for ur comments :D
glad u like it