why can't some people learn ...
- - to let go ?
- - to stop their grudge and learn to forgive and forget ?
- - to move on in life ?
- - to let others move on with their lives ?
- - to let others as they are now in the peaceful and cease disturbance ?
- - to let others heal ?
- - to leave the past in the many yesterdays and instead bring forward in todays and many tomorrows to come ?
- - to leave the "grave" as it was and purposely have to dig them up again and again ?
- - to leave the ghosts of the past as they were and learn to look for new angels of the future ?
4 comments:
It is impossible for anyone to forget something which has a significant impact on his/her life. In this case, to forget is to not let that thing which had caused you so much misery in the past, not affect your life at present. If it involve two parties, the other may choose not to let go (i.e not to forget) but you can always choose to let go (i.e to forget). Do not let others who cannot let go, affect your peaceful life now.
thanks for your comment atheist!
actually its not a matter of choice!
even if you want to let go and lead a peaceful life,one can't help but affected by others'actions because the petty ones refuses to make one's life easy going..
Perhaps, "fallen-so-what-can-pick-and-move-on" is never in their dictionary! Moreover, some refuses to let you live in peace but instead choose to "drop by" once in awhile to reopen wounds and spray some salt upon the healing ones! such is the nature of humans!
scary ..isn't it?
It is a choice if you look at it objectively. If that person manages to affect you, it shows that maybe you havent really 'forget' the things that had happened. Whatever problem you are facing, I am sure you can get through with it. Maybe you need time and maybe the other need time as well. But I personally believe we always have a choice in our life. You have no choice to make the person forget but the choice is yours to not let it affect you. A barking dog barks even more if you agitate it.
The 1st time a healing wound touches salt, the pain is excruciating.
But when more salt is added, the pain diminishes eventually. In fact, the salt reduces tissue swelling by osmotic action and promotes healing by 'drying up' bacteria on the wound.
Don't let pain be the destiny. Let healing be the result.
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