mastering change rather than allowing it to master you

I have learnt that ,...

sometimes things might not be what you wanted or expected them to be. And these things can come one after another in sequences to test your ability to handle them, to let you learn patience, let you pick up social skills to mingle among those whom you would rather stay away from if given choice! Perhaps, you cannot control what happens to you, but you can control your ATTITUDE toward what happens to you, and in that, you will be mastering change rather than allowing it to master you. ..one must not forget to relax in life and let loose of thyself in this fast paced stressful life....